Wednesday, January 23, 2008

The blow dryer

Walking around in this little town it is hard to tell the difference between a grocery shop, an electricity shop, a pharmacie, a veggie shop, restaurants, a textile shop and so on...

They all, magically, look the same. With the only tiny uniqueness being their curtaindesign..... even then patterns and colors of neighbour shops go hand in hand like small brothers.

The only shop able to tell itself apart from miles, is the bridal shop...and there is a fair amount of them scattered around here. Especially compared to any other shop in town.. it seems like Chinese love to get married just as much as they love to eat.... and that is something, because food is everything to them. Not only do they greet each other with: "Did you have your lunch already?" Food and cooking play a major part in their daily lives and they seem to plan their entire day around the meals.....Both a good friend and a good mother will show their love by cooking a tastebudelicious meal, that looks, smells and you'd almost say it even sounds...


Of course every shop has their own sign, but clearly, that still doesn't tell me what place I might be walking in. So I still have the pleasure of walking into god knows where and trying to figure out which sign and curtain design match which shop...

The other day I went to have a shower in town (there is no warm water in the school...unless you boil it yourself. But to boil the amount of water you'd like to shower in would be a crazy job)
Luckily my friend was with me to show me through the right curtains...
To shower in this place was a whole experience.... it was like going to a shop and a dentist or a doctor all at once.
First we had to sit in some kind of waiting room with a huge mirror on the wall, a blow dryer sweeping on a cord in the corner and a small desk made of glass where you could buy shampoos and towels. I guess the shampoos and towels were supposed to be respresented in one way or another, behind that glass, but in fact they looked like they were thrown on a pile and no-one seemed to care much about the presentation.....
Anyway as I was sitting there, in that waiting room, "watching" my cold red nose in the mirror, waiting for the warm shower and waiting for my friend, who went out underwear shopping, to come back, there were two wet haired guys, around my age, entering from behind another curtain. With their towel still in their left hand they started lighting a sigaret with the other one. As the whole place was kind of smoky already with the damps of the hot showers, soon the only part of me I could still see in the mirror was my red nose...
Then one of the guys sat down in the corner with the blow dryer and the other guy, who's fingers were still holding the sigaret started blow drying this boys hair.... It realy was a special scene with these two standing in the smoke, carefully, yet with a manly proud blow drying each others hair... while I was watching their moves, their back and their faces in the mirror.........

The beauty in China?

Ask a Chinese how I look and they will say......
-Veeery tall.
-Blue eyes
-Dirty blond hair (yep...how's that)
-My feet are wearing small boats these days (yep they said this as well)
and how about this one:
-I have a "high nose" (this is a comment coming from a boy around the age of 9)

The mountain school...


That huge green building over there is the school..... and two of those top windows allow me to look at the senery

Chinese lantern?


Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Huge dumpling





Giant dumplings for sale on the street....

shopping-hole




Monday, January 14, 2008

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Rowing with chopsticks?

Oke I don't want to confuse you, but this is still Vietnam. I have been wanting to send it earlier.....

Love the crazy way they row these boats. I don't know why, but they make it look so easy....and something is telling me that this method is not so easy at all!!

Still in the tropics?


Mountain village



Another foto shoot


Saturday, January 12, 2008

Invited by a student (along came some friends......)


One of the students lives close to the school and so she invited me over at her place.
A whole afternoon of playing cards: spoon!! A game that I taught them. Their only three hours off in the week. They go to school from monday to sunday from 5;50 am to 22;00 pm!

snowcar


Mountain village

Xinxiang: as I am unfolding my-self trying to get out of an indeed charming and cosy minivan (ones flexibility must increase when allowed this much space in vehicles...)
my eyes start wandering the streets. They stroll into the taxis where they immediately notice the security cage the driver sits in: against crashes. It looks more like they expect the passengers to behave like dogs... or maybe the drivers themselves might do so...

Two days ago I arrived in Shijazhuang, the place where New Times is settled. New Times is the organisation that helps me to find a (volunteer) teaching job.

Accompanied by Jenny (from New Times) all the way in the minivan experience, we now are waiting for a car to pick me up and bring me to the mountain village school where I will be teaching the next 3 weeks.

As promised there comes the car and when opening its doors 4 man come out! Jennys services stop right here and I am delivered to these 4 man, 3 of them appear to be english teachers, but they whisper something like "sorry, my english is poor"...
After 10 minutes the car stops in front of some giant shopping mall where I am guided through by mister Li (one of the 4) . I will need some stuff here for in the mountain village and that is why mister Li as personal coach now is guiding me through the process of grocery shopping....hilarious. But I felt not realy at ease.

When the shopping fun is over, I enjoy the senery. I sit next to the driver with all the english teachers silently sleeping and mumbeling in the back and wonder what 3 weeks of silence will be like......

As soon as we arrive at the school my luggage is taken out of the car and carried away. We all follow my luggage and walk into the office of the headmaster who gives me a warm welcome in Chinese. Than a new face walks into the room, another english teacher.... a girl, she translates the headmasters speech and tells me she will stay with me, the 3 weeks in this school, cause apparently I need someone to take care of me.....

2 of these weeks have passed by now. The english teacher: miss Zhang, has been looking after me day and night, but she has not been the only one......

Also......the whispers of the man in the car, became louder and more frequent and soon they where proper conversations......the man where just shy.

Just like these man most of the people I meet here pass this phase of being shy and mumbling.
And just like miss Zhang people take care of me and overwhelm me with their hospitality.
I made friends with a lot of teachers and have been invited to their houses, met their kids, had dinners, gifts and all kinds of food brought to me... Apples are a real common and populair Chinese gift, so imagine by now I can start an apple store.
You are never allowed to refuse any gift or food as that will make them feel realy embarrassed.

From the look in their eyes, their warm heart seems never ending. Their honesty and simple way of expressing seem so pure. It still touches me the same way everyday and is one of the only things I am not "used to".
I even received free stuff from shop owners in the village; have been, individualy, welcomed by 3000(!) students (that took me 2 weeks...yesterday I had the last new class...the 38th); and invited over to their houses.

I have sung in all 38th classes; danced in some; I have been asked to model for countless pictures: cellphones, cameras I even did some proper shoots with students, entire classes, teachers and families.....

Cambodia

Traveling has always made it easy for me to write.The use of traffic somehow creates "wordbombs" in my head that explode uncontrolled.
Floating on the wide brown Mekong, yet again my brain is 3 steps ahead, making it hard for my pencil to follow.....

Cambodia. It has been about a week and the country has lived in me day and night. In bed I still see the faces, feel the traffic crossing with its motos; hear the voices of children selling books (mostly coppied lonely planets); people begging; tuk-tuk drivers pushing you to take their ride.

Now heading to the border with Vietnam, by boat, staring at the brown water that doesn't reveal anything, I realise that Cambodia is still as big a secret to me as this surrounding water I'm floating through right now. I only heard the fist tones of the song that makes this country. But missing most of the concert the impression is not less. Having seen capital: Phnom Pen and the massive Angkor I've seen masterpieces. I pitty they were touristic places that didn't give me that much of a feel for the people.... you can tell things by their faces, yet you don't know the stories behind their stare.